the way to reopen an account is
make yourself a new yahoo account and new ok cupid account only from the library (not from your house computer) and put in a picture that does not resemble towards the old picture
and never use your yahoo and cupid acount from your house only from the library like this they will not have a reason to think its you
i tried it and it works again never associate your new yahoo acount and cupid with your old computer
down load the pictures only with the new yahoo acount like this okcupid they will never figure out its you (I am so confident with that that i am posting it here and okcupid could read it and they will never know my secret account from the library